Difficult relationships can be one reason church is less than enjoyable. The there's the music, preaching, and hey – the actual church building, which might not really suit our preferences.
So what can we do when church sucks? Well, your first step is to talk to God about it. After that, you might take on board some of the advice our authors have given about church – why we do it, and how to stay in it. So listen up!
1. Is church even necessary?
Well, is it? Does the Bible say I have to go to church to be a Christian? Elizabeth Robinson gives us an honest answer: no. But if you're interested in staying a Christian, it's a whole different matter. Read about how going to church can keep you on track with God.
2. Am I at the right church?
It can be tempting to think that jumping ship might immediately solve all the problems you have with your current church. This article is mainly for new Christians looking for a church, but its guidelines are a great way to examine your current church before you think about leaving. Get reading to find out what the three crucial questions are that you should be asking yourself about your church.
3. Your church needs you
This is a package deal because Kristen Young has written not just one, but two insightful articles outlining why persevering with our churches is so important, and why church hopping isn't a great idea. Read part one here, and part two here.
4. My church is fine, but youth group…?
Maybe you're happy enough with your church, but you find it hard to see the point of your youth group. First of all – stop and reflect for a minute, because not all churches have the resources to run youth groups. Then read this article by Jessie Rider, and find out how you can make youth group amazing.
5. How should I love my church?
If you're looking for practical ways to love the church you're in, Elisabeth Carter offers some wisdom on loving your church community, even when you're less than enthusiastic. Get started here.
6. Be the change you want to see in your church
Okay, so your church isn't perfect. What sort of action should you be taking? Explore what Sierra Wendt has to say about the difference between being a passanger and a captain in your own church, and why it's important to stay on board.
7. So…go to church
And make sure you get there on time! Samuel Mills gives us great motivations for showing up to church on time, and how it makes church better for everybody.