How far is too far sexually in a relationship?

How far is too far sexually in a relationship?

Asked by Hamish

im a young christian man. i love god and i love decipling, i just want too know how far is too far with a girl kissing is fine but is anything more than that ok?
cos i know no sex before marrige but does that mean the other stuff?

Hi Hamish,

It is good that you are concerned for this and are seeking to work out what the right thing to do is. Too often young christians are happy to let the ethics of the world guide them rather than asking the hard questions and doing teh godly thing.

As you can imagine this is a question that we get reasonably regularly and there is a good answer already worked up.

Get back to me if you have any further questions.

God bless



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